[_3rd-f-leadership] Freed to Lead: Ch 4 & 5
AO: _3rd-f-leadership Q: Posse PAX: Cutlet, Fuse Box FNGs: None COUNT: 3 – 1/4: Half the Mission – Mission: To plant, serve & grow small men’s workout groups, in order to reinvigorate male community leadership – Unlike other mission statements, this actually says what we do & what we don’t do – F3 spun off […]
[_3rd-f-leadership] Freed to Lead: Ch 3
AO: _3rd-f-leadership Q: Posse PAX: Cutlet, Posse FNGs: None COUNT: 2 – Pax Essay: Hoff – Hospitality Leadership, in 3 Acts – Each man who comes to F3 has a unique treasure – It may or may not have been validated – This was the case for Posse. Mad Dog made an offhanded remark in […]
[_3rd-f-leadership] Freed to Lead – Ch 1 & 2
AO: _3rd-f-leadership Q: Posse PAX: Cutlet, Posse FNGs: None COUNT: 2 Amazon: https://a.co/d/1ftV83s – 1/1: The Explanation – “I don’t know what working out has to do with ‘Freed to Lead’” – For many men, F3 has been transformational – It solves a problem Dredd & OBT didn’t know existed until F3 started to take […]
[_3rd-f-leadership] 80/80 Marriage: Ch. 13
AO: _3rd-f-leadership Q: Posse PAX: Magnolia, Endo, C3P0, Posse FNGs: None COUNT: 4 – Sex – Orgasmic Altruism (great name for next AO) – How you do life is how you do sex. How you do sex is how you do life. – 4 ways we struggle to have joyful sex of younger days – […]
[_3rd-f-leadership] 80[80 Chapter 10 Priorities
AO: _3rd-f-leadership Q: C3P0 PAX: Posse, Endo, Cutlet, Mute, C3P0, Bratwurst FNGs: None COUNT: 6 Lots of discussion on our priorities and demands from life and differences in how we manage it all with our Ms
[_3rd-f-leadership] 80/80 Marriage: Ch. 7
AO: _3rd-f-leadership Q: Posse PAX: Magnolia, C3P0, Posse FNGs: None COUNT: 3 Revealing – What You Say Slow fades >>Little things over the years that erode a marriage >>“You don’t notice when your hearts are being pulled apart ¼ inch at a time” Even 80/80 marriages have problems Sometimes, instead of radical generosity, you have […]
[_3rd-f-leadership] 80/80 Marriage: Ch. 3 & 4
AO: _3rd-f-leadership Q: Posse PAX: Magnolia, Hatchet, Cutlet, Fuse Box, Premature, C3P0, Posse FNGs: None COUNT: 7 80/80 – Where We Want to Go Next See yourselves more as a team, this time on the SAME team (sometimes you’re the QB, or RB, or OL or CB, but you’re still always trying to win together) […]
[_3rd-f-leadership] 80/80 Marriage: Ch. 2
AO: _3rd-f-leadership Q: Posse PAX: Magnolia, Endo, Cutlet, C3P0, Premature, Posse FNGs: None COUNT: 6 50/50 Model – what most of our marriages look like + Most all roles can be done by either spouse (thanks HS cheerleaders!) – Constant scorekeeping of who has done more Fairness is an ILLUSION because: 1. Tasks are almost […]
[_3rd-f-leadership] 80/80 Marriage: Intro & Ch. 1
AO: _3rd-f-leadership Q: Posse PAX: Magnolia, Endo, Cutlet, C3P0, Premature, Fuse Box, Animal Chris VanDruff, Posse FNGs: None COUNT: 8 80/20 – the marriage model of our parents / grandparents & some of it still sticks with us today. + Clearly defined roles + Shared success – Wife does 80% of the work of the […]