[_3rd-f-leadership] 80/80 Marriage: Ch. 2

AO: _3rd-f-leadership
Q: Posse
PAX: Magnolia, Endo, Cutlet, C3P0, Premature, Posse
FNGs: None
COUNT: 6
50/50 Model – what most of our marriages look like
+ Most all roles can be done by either spouse (thanks HS cheerleaders!)
– Constant scorekeeping of who has done more

Fairness is an ILLUSION because:
1. Tasks are almost impossible to compare to each other (time? effort? impact? sacrifice? cost?)
2. Contribution blind spot = I see ALL of my contributions (& overestimate them) while being blind to my spouse’s contributions (& underestimating them)

Next week: Ch. 3 & 4